put yourself in someone's shoes.
all she can say is you are so self-centered. you are so scheming.



if you don't like others to whisper or talk behind your back, then don't do that to others.


cause it will simply means retribution is on its way.
maybe not a retribution on yourself, but on your next generation or next next generation, which you will never live till that age to witness it.


you may choose not to believe, but retribution does happen.
to some it comes early, to some it comes late. it all depends.
there a chinese saying "ren zai zhou, tian zai can".


you will never know if that person whom you talk about behind her back will find out.

when she does find out and choose not to confront you, it simply implies that she doesn't even bother about that friendship.

simply because she's just sick and tired.
simply because she's had seen you through.
simply because she's sick of you pretending to be nonchalant.
simply because she felt nauseous when you are still able to face her and talk to her like nothing had happened.


she heard, you had not only talked about her once to 1 friend. but instead many times to many friends. and yet each time when you told 1 friend, it ends with 'not that i want friends to hate her. so i never say out.'


ha! she laughs! cause you simply just did.



she doesn't feel at least sad. but instead pity for you, cause it just shows that you aren't kind as what your appearance had shown.


she's not going to open up to you anymore, not going to tell you things about her, cause she felt you are only trying to mingle with her for e sake of wanting to know, to gossip.


she's not going to care, not going to believe words that are coming from your mouth cause she no longer consider you as her friend. cause she has enough evidence from your actions to prove to her that you are a fake.


you can say whatever you want behind her back from now on.
cause she will no longer be affected.
the lies you claim that she had said are more or less e same lies you had told the others.
yes, she said 'claim' instead cause she had never once lied to you, except white lies, cause under that circumstance she feels embarrass. put yourself in her shoes.


the lies you told are probably more. she knows. she keeps quiet.
she knows you are doing revision, but on e pretext keep pretending to tell her/them you had been playing/dating/on phone till late at night. she knows. she keeps quiet. cause at that time she consider you as her friend, to leave you some 'face'.


since you are the one who started first by spreading words behind her back, which she calls that backstab, she soon will be talking behind your back. a taste of your own medicine.


she knows very well that blogging about you is not a very nice thing to do.
but she still does so anyway.
cause she thinks, what's the point in keeping mum about things when on the other hand you have been spreading her bad. cause she thinks, she does have this right since you had started it first. since you leave her no face, why should she still leave face for you?


so stop giving her those shits that blogging about friends aren't good. cause you guys aren't that good either, aren't that perfect either.


tell her what's good? what's bad?
what your definition of good and bad?
all she knows is people definition of good and bad varies.
for her, under such circumstances, she knows blogging about you aren't considered bad. cause once again you did that(talking behind her back) first.



she's not going to feel sorry for what she had done. not going to reply your questions courteously. her sudden change in attitude toward you is what you will soon realised.


soon you'll notice that you had step on her toes, you had arouse her anger, her willingness to break off any ties she had with you.

she's not going to confront you on anything, but you owes her an apology. she will be waiting for that apology. but whether she will consider you as her friend again, it all depends on your future actions.


if you ever used your brain to think, recap what she has done for you. maybe not in big situations, but some ones like maybe for example exams.



if you think you are the one she's talking about, it just implies that you are guilty.


all in all, goodbye to you (one who backstab her).



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right.
thanks to him.
thanks for his understanding.
thanks for his agreement with me.
thanks for the concern.
thanks for making me laugh my heart out.

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